You don’t keep a girl hanging or waiting. When you like her, TELL her. Girls want you guys to move FIRST. Maybe she likes you back and even if she didn’t, at least she knows someone actually finds her attractive. Now that makes us girls insecure. Haha. Yup, we’re really impatient. We hate talking to you guys first cause we think that we’ll probably annoy you — and we don’t like letting you guys know we like you.
All you want to do is talk to him/her. You’re thinking about talking to them but you feel as if you annoy them so you stop. You see him/her talking to an opposite sex, that feeling of jealousy starts to kick in. Right away you’ll discover that you like this person more than you intend to. It happens all the time. You need to let that person have his/her space. Maybe they feel the same way, maybe they don’t. Its your decision to find out yourself.
Tell me that you don’t love me and never did, tell me that what we had meant absolutely nothing to you, tell me you want nothing to do with me, tell me that you want me gone and out of your life for good and when you have the ability to say all those and mean it, that’s when I’ll make my final decision and decide that you are no longer worthy of my time and tears.
I miss those days where you would always hit me up and talk to me every second, minute and hours. But you don’t do that anymore, which makes me pretty sad.. I mean, I really want to talk to you, but it seems like you’re to busy talking to other girls and not me. So why do I even bother? It makes…
Come up to hug me first instead of me going up to them. Because it shows how much they actually care and how confident they are. I may not like them in that CRUSH sort of way but if a guy comes up to hug me, I’ll automatically have that likeness bond. <3
And stick with you through all your fucking bullshit. It’s kinda obvious that you shouldn’t even think about letting her go. because once you let her go, you’ll never find anyone like her. she’s a keeper.
The idea of loving someone. Talking to that special someone everyday. Cuddling. Watching movies and going out for dinner. Hanging out with a group of friends. Going to dances together. Holding hands. Hearing other’s say “Awe they’re so cute together, I wish I had a relationship like that.” Having a smile on my face 24/7 because of that special someone. I just don’t like the feeling of getting hurt. Getting used. Getting played. Getting led on.
Girls aren’t going to talk to you first. It’s a girl thing. We don’t like starting the conversation because we like to feel like you want to talk to us. We like to feel like the wait was worth something. We like feeling like you’ve waited for us like we’ve waited for you. But the number one reason we hate talking first is because we hate to seem needy or clingy. That’s why we’re scared. Cause to us, being needy and obsessive just pushes guys away. And no girl wants that.
Homies and friends may think they know what’s best for you and maybe they’re right. But one thing’s forsure, they don’t know the feelings you guys have for each other and even if they did, their opinion would be different from yours because they’re not in love w/ the person you’re in love w/. Do what’s right for you. Don’t let other people keep you from keeping someone who makes you happy.
I wouldn’t be mad at you just being straight up with me. I wont take it up the ass, it’s even better to be straight up with me than just lying. Because honestly my curiosity is killing me. Be mature about it and I’ll be the same.
As hard as it may be, it’s safer that way. In hopes that I don’t get hurt. Maybe if I don’t talk to you, you’ll end up talking to me. Maybe if I try to keep myself busy and on the low, maybe just maybe, you’ll end up wondering where I am. Maybe if I stay away, you’ll hopefully miss me.
Just don’t. I mean if you’re in a relationship, it’s not cute or funny in any way for you to go off and flirt with someone else. You’re with someone who is possibly hurting or jealous, because you go off and do such things. Sometimes, this person you’re with will say it’s okay, but it’s because they put up with it, only because they adore you to pieces, they love/like you a lot.
If running away from you’re troubles was easy, I would’ve left ages ago. I feel like I’m not important to anyone, not good enough for anyone, no one you can trust etc. The feeling of insecurity. I hate that feeling so bad.